Four or five years ago, my daughter decided to participate in the middle school talent show. She and a friend played the piano and did very well. I’m super proud of her for many reasons, but the main one is below.
First, let me tell you what any kind of public speaking/performance seems like to me.
Hell.
This is actually just a bonfire, but I’m guessing it’s like this, only probably, like…bigger and more.
I don’t do any kind of public speaking or anything that resembles it in any way. Believe me, if you saw me trying, you’d be happy if I just sat back down. Why? Because I panic so hard that it’s just painful and uncomfortable for everyone. It’s just a bad scene. A huge NOPE.
Yeah…I don’t think so.
Therefore, anyone who participates in something like this is already Superman/Wonder Woman in my book. Add to that the fact that these were kids…KIDS…no older than fourteen. Suffice to say, I was impressed before I even entered the building.
But then there was this one girl in particular. She was introduced and came out onto the stage to sing her song. She started with a small, cracking voice and quickly made a mistake. She panicked and left the stage. A moment later, the vice principal came out and said that she was going to come back and try again later and he introduced the next act.
Boy, could I feel for that girl. She was me and I was her. Except that I wouldn’t have gotten up there in the first place. I thought…poor thing, we won’t see her again tonight.
This isn’t her, but it was like this…with the microphone on fire and everything.
But she did come back out a few acts later. She started tentatively again, but then found her groove and nailed her song. I was blown away by the courage it took to come back out on the stage a second time, in front of everyone. And by the applause, I wasn’t the only one who saw it that way. I wanted to go up to her and hug her and tell her how great she did. But I didn’t know her so…you know…creepy.
This is my shout-out to all you public speakers and performers of any sort. God bless you guys. You’re amazing. I’d hug you, but…you know…creepy.
That was me at sports banquets when I had to introduce the girls and give out trophies. I had coached these girls for at least one year and sometimes more. I had one of the girls stand near me and tell me who each girl was as they came up. Panic for sure. Hate public speaking of any kind. Hate people looking at me. LOL I would have felt this girls pain.
It’s such a terrible feeling, especially when you know you have no reason to panic. But at least you found a way to get it done. I’m amazed by people who don’t seem the least bit nervous about it. That’s a talent in itself. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!! Great to hear from you.